2013年6月18日 星期二

Tribute to two Doris'

I have been very amazed and touched by two ladies both named Doris, who have fought with cancer, one herself and one as spouse, in the past few years and particularly the past few months.
Doris, a psychology colleague, wife of a reverend, and a devoted minister herself, was diagnosed of cancer a few years back. She fought it with courage and had been in remission for a couple of years until the recent reoccurrence. When she first had cancer, I was already very impressed by how she took it, shared it, and got through it so gracefully. She was so generous in sharing her thoughts and learning and so honest in sharing her struggles and pain. I was encouraged every time I read her emails and blog (http://goodfightdoris.blogspot.com/).
She has more strength and stronger will than most healthy persons and also lives a fuller life than most even in her sickness.
Doris, whether you're fighting or finishing the race, I'm cheering for you!

Doris, a graduating psychologist, wife of a police officer, who fought with cancer bravely and just passed away several weeks ago. Everyone is sad for Doris but she's the only one who still smiles. They knew the cancer was aggressive and the treatment was not effective, but they chose not to complain but to do everything they could, enjoy every moment they had together, and face it with humility and persistence.
Doris got married right before she started her clinical psychology training two years ago. Her husband's cancer was diagnosed a few months later, when she was in a very demanding phase of the training. - in the middle of courses, placements, thesis and everything. Doris had to defer her studies for 9 months as she took the time to take care of her husband with a more spread-out workload. I actually wanted to exempt her from a few things but she insisted to fulfill all the course requirements just like her classmates did. That makes you wonder why some students (and myself sometimes!) find every excuse in the world to do less, to be late in submission of assignments, and to miss training opportunities. I admire Doris as a person with integrity and am honored to be her teacher in the past two years and nine months.
Doris, I pray that God will bless you immensely as you continue your life journey until the day of reunion with your beloved.

Doris and Doris, you both show me how God is beyond our understanding and His grace and power are beyond the pain, the fear, and the tears. I praise the Lord and thank you for your living testimony. 

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